Vision

'Your brain gets smart but your head gets down,
So much to do, so much to see,
So what's wrong with thinking about dreams?

You never know if you dont go,
You never shine if you dont glow! '

- Shrek OST

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The dreams may seem like how Shrek laughed to the fairy tale he read. Of the princess and the true love's kiss. Nonsense, he said.

We dream to be everything, to have everything, to achieve everything! then after a while, all the 'everything' turns into 'nothing'. Right after we think 'all these stuffs are nonsense. ' just like how Shrek thought.

Somehow, Shrek did focus on to have his own swamp. But with the order from F-furt 'King', his swamp was 'intruded' by other fairy tale creatures, which make him angry. Well, ogre lives alone. Starting from that, to get back his swamp, he took the challenge to save  Princess Fiona. Even he didnt know much yet the obstacles he might face in front.

but for the sake of his swamp, he managed to save the princess. In addition, without he realized he also found his true love; although he never thought of that. The most important is, that nonsense thing he laughed before turned into reality.

As simple as that. So... conclusion?

RULE 1. Turn your dreams into vision. Like Shrek dreamed to have his own swamp.

RULE 2. Focus. Even Shrek didn't know how the future was planned, he kept moving on to achieve his dream.

RULE 3 : Persistent. Although Shrek faced hurdles in the middle of his journey, he didnt give in. You know why? because he knew what he wanted.

RULE 4 : Find morale support. Like how Donkey did to Shrek. He's totally annoying, but Donkey is the one who showed Shrek ways. Way to achieve dreams, way to laugh, way to appreciate each other. Way to feel like you definitely have someone to lean on, to cry for. Not?

RULE 5 : Keep believe. Just like how Shrek truly believed himself, in the end he got more than what he wanted, definitely.

So What is your vision?

DOA

Hujan tak berhenti dari semalam. Tanda Allah merahmati hari, insyaAllah.

setiap kali hujan turun,  Allah akan makbulkan doa macam titik-titik air hujan.

Perkongsian semalam oleh Tn Hj Tamrin Ginen, perkongsian daripada hadis; doa adalah bukti tauhid kepada Allah. Dalam Al-Quran,  ada tujuh surah yang hanya menceritakan tauhid Allah. (Yang bermula dengan Haa Mim )

Pentingnya doa ni, Allah dah berfirman;  sesiapa yang tak berdoa kat Aku, dia adalah orang yang sombong. Dan. Balasan untuk orang yang sombong, Allah akan campakkan dia ke dalam neraka yang hina.

Terkadang,  kita rasa kita kecik sangat kan,  nak minta tolong ngan Allah. Rasa malu,  rasa tak layak nak dapat pertolongan pun.

Tapi tu lah Allah. Dia tak suka kalau kita diam je. Dia suka kita meminta minta kat Dia. Dan Allah dah berfirman, dalam surah Ghafir ayat 60;  berdoalah maka akan Aku perkenankan.

Doa yang paling last Allah perkenankan adalah doa yang tak dimakbulkan. Maksudnya;  doa yang kita selalu duk cakap 'hmm Allah takkan makbul doa aku ni. Siapa aku Dia nak perkenankan macam-macam.. ' Doa ni la yang paling last Allah makbulkan sebab dia tak yakin dengan Allah.

Begitu juga kalau kita minta nak masuk syurga firdaus. Memang kita rasa tak layak. Sungguh tak layak.

Tanya Tn Hj, dahtu, kalau kamu rasa tak layak nak masuk syurga, siapa yang layak? syurga tu Allah ciptakan untuk siapa?

Manusia.

Maka, kenapa kita rasa kita tak layak,  sedangkan Allah dah layakkan diri kita masuk syurga dah!

Tambah Tn Hj lagi; minta doa, untuk Allah lindung diri kita dari kebaikan diri sendiri dan amal kita. Sebab,  manusia tu semulajadinya memang perangai buruk. Minta jauh dari Allah dengan semua menda ni.

Dan Allah dah tegaskan;  barangsiapa yang Allah bagi petunjuk, selamatlah ia. Dan barangsiapa yang Allah sesatkan, tiada siapa pun yang dapat tolong dia.

Nauzubillah.

*Tn Hj Tamrin = big boss consultant ginen bersatu.  :)

The Wisdom of Women's Oppression - Part 1

I just feel like sharing on some stuffs my non-muslim friends often asked me. Frequent questions from those who never practices Islam in their life, and always got wrong facts from the wrong sources. Yes, the media.

*** Disclaimer : I TOTALLY not blaming the non-Muslims who are not against Islam teachings and Muslims.

I'm going to split the topics into three parts. For today, the part is about :

HIJAB

Hijab is from Arabic which means barrier or protection. In Islamic concept, it is wider than that.

Often people understands that hijab brings the meaning of a woman who should dress up with loosy clothes, wearing scarf and veil, fully black, face covered, et cetera. Which in contra, the world misunderstands her as a terrorist or an extremist.

Other than that, Islam haters also spread rumours where hijab symbolizes women's inferior position in Islam and their sexual segregation, based on Surah An-Nur, Chapter 24, verse 31; they say. In fact, the men were asked  to control themselves first before the women!

"Say to the believing MEN that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do'' 

[An-Nur; 24:30]

and there goes the next verse of the Chapter in Quran;

"And say to the believing WOMEN that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons or their sisters' sons or their women or the slaves whom their right hands possess or male servants free of physical needs or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers ! Turn ye all together towards Allah that ye may attain bliss.

[An-Nur; 24:31]

Why Allah obliges us to do so?

1.  When women cover up their bodies; they are telling the strangers [men] that they know their boundaries and they are NOT a toy. 

Logically; have you ever seen woman in hijab being a model for any products; other than Muslimah clothing's products?

2.  Hijab is a role model of morality, modesty and well behaved. 

This to protect women's honour and dignity. How come you say being uncovered is a part of modernization; as there is only one type of moving creatures who do not cover up; ANIMALS. If you say so, that means animals are way ahead modern than us. 

3.  By being cover up, it indirectly prevent suicidal among women who always thinking of their imperfect bodies. 

I remembered when i was seventeen, my Biology teacher shared to us about bulimia and anorexia nervosa; the Barbie's disease. The reason is, these diseases often occurred to the women. They want to 'look like' Barbie; slim body, white skin, long legs, long hair, with tall height. 

Look how the world fantasizes the women. They feed us with beautiful photoshopped models with beautiful make ups, that turns women upside down to have same appearances with the models.

From an article I read before, the tendency to suicide occurs more to teenage girls as they suffer depression and anxiety more due to their 'no-boobies-and-booties' body.[Read the article below] So, by wearing loosy clothes and veil, this let the women to not thinking much of how they will look like in front of the community, and be more confidence to associate with the others.

Every single thing that Allah obliges us to do sure have lots of reasons hidden. After all, He's the Creator; and who else know more about the creatures other than the Creator?

Credits

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Sources : 

• Article: Lifespan; "Negative Body Image Related to Depression, Anxiety and Suicidality". Science Daily. Science Daily, June 6, 2006
• Video: Hijab - Ask A Muslim
• Video:  Why Muslim Women Wear The Veil ? - Syeikh Ahmed Deedat
• Muslim Haters' Blog : The 'Danger' in Women; Islamic Women and Religious Opression 

The Wisdom Of Women's Oppression - Part 2

i was just tired crocheting non stop these few days. thinking of my so-long-not-update blog, i decided to continue writing the second part of The Wisdom of Women's Oppression.

POLYGAMY 

[Plural Marriages]

• "how can you say your religion protects you women, yet you all can be married with the same guy? which part of justice for you?"
• "don't you ladies feel oppressed by sharing one husband?"
• "How come Muhammad was a great man, even he needed more than one woman to release his sexual lust?"

some of tough questions i got before. i believe even we muslims still not yet know more in this topic. as we feel comfortable enough with our status as a muslim, so we just accept all of the stories our teachers and preachers told us before. I was one of them too. thanks to my friends, made me realize to dig more about Islam, not just swallow everything without knowing the reasons.

well, the first thing, it is true. In Islam, it's legal for Muslim men to have plural marriage [polygamy]. BUT not more than 4 women. This doesnt mean Muslim women have no rights at all to say no to their husbands.

“...Marry of the women that please you, two, three or four, BUT IF YOU FEAR THAT YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO DEAL JUSTLY WITH THEM,  THEN ONLY ONE.” [An-Nisa; 4:3]

Noted that polygamy is NOT a must. 

Well, to be frank, through history it's not Muhammad pbuh who started the polygamy. it's not only Islam religion which practices polygamy. The story began earlier and more than that. Muhammad then came to show  us the right way to do so.

What are the wisdom of polygamy in Islam though?

There are three situations that makes this sort of marriage legal.

1. In the situation where the number of women are more than men.

2. In the situation of war; where typically men were killed more than women.

3. In the situation where man can provide financial, emotional and physical support and commitment EQUALLY to another.


However,  if the husband cannot give the woman a child due to his health problem, the woman has her right to seek for a divorce and marry another man. But if it's vice versa, for man to fulfill his desire , he is allowed to marry again without divorcing his current wife, so the current wife still have someone to lean on, and get protection.

And, if the wife doesnt agree with her husband to marry again, SHE HAS HER RIGHT TO SAY NO.

To say that we are opressed by sharing a husband,  for me it's nothing better than a husband that has only one wife, but has another women that we dont even know they ever exist at the wife's back. At least,  by marriage everything he does with that 'another women' is legal, and he doesnt hide the fact from us. 

Am I wrong? 

But i myself prefer to NOT giving permission for my so-called husband to marry again, unless I die first. Haha. 

I will explain more about Muhammad pbuh next time,  insyaAllah. It's kinda long story.  :)

May Allah bless you and me, who gives us chance to understand Islam more, who open our hearts and minds to think and start searching the blurry truth. 

InsyaAllah.  :)

Innalillah Buat Diri

Aidil Adha 1436H.

Kemalangan kren jatuh.
Rempuhan di Mina.
Budak 10 tahun maut kemalangan.
Imam solat meninggal dalam tahiyat akhir.

refleksi. ku ukur tahap iman pada diri.
setinggi manakah?

zahirnya seperti sudah bersedia. batinnya?
Tidak !

baru saja fikirkan hutang solat yang masih tertunggak,
sudah ku doa panjangkan umur untuk beribadat.
lagi fikir jasa kepada agama, lagi terasa tak layak.

mata masih fokus pada kaca TV.
akal sudah terbang ke mana, tapi
ditelan hadam tiap-tiap yang terjadi

wahai !
tidak Allah ambil nyawa hambaNya selagi tak sampai masa!
usah bermimpi mati mulia andai amal tak seberapa!
apa harga syurga Allah semurah itukah?

pahit liur ditelan sendiri. payah.

diri,
husnul khatimah tidaklah bila kau kata; "aku nak mati syahid!"
sedangkan kau masih hanyut dalam lagha dunia

tak percaya?

celik saja mata, kau capai telefon.
facebook. whatsapp. telegram. instagram.
belum lagi masuk twitter , tumblr, vine, keek
alhamdulillah untuk Tuhan mana?

4:30 pagi.
niat awal mahu tahajud.
45 minit sudah hilang untuk telefon.
15 minit di bilik air.
5:30am baru lah terngadah capai telekung.

diri,
sedari awal hari sudah kau siakan, apa lagi berkat yang Tuhan nak datangkan?

diri,
kau hakikatnya sudah pun mati
sejak kau angkat Tuhan dari hati.

Katakanlah [Muhammad SAW], "Sesungguhnya solatku, ibadatku, hidupku dan  matiku hanyalah untuk Allah, Tuhan seluruh alam'." - Al An'am, 6:162

24092015;Rawang

[EPILOG] DIA, ADAMANTIUM

 Empat minggu sebelum…

“Mak, tiket balik Raya Haji dah habis ! Huhuhu.. Macam mana ni..?” Nuha merengek sebaik saja talian di sebelah diangkat.

“Tiket balik Kelantan pun sudah sold out jugakah?” Sang ibu bertanya.

“Haah.. Huhuhu. Orang nak balik..”

“Hmmm. Kalau tiket dah habis, nak buat macam mana lagi. Tumpang je la rumah siapa-siapa beraya..” Mak bercanda dalam serius. Nuha diam sekejap. Mak ni memanglah.. Langsung tak kisah orang balik kampung ke tak. Grr!

“Ermm.. mak. Kak Ma’wa ajak kita balik rumah dia raya haji ni. Dia nak ajak jalan-jalan kat Johor. What say you?” Nuha teringat ajakan seniornya tidak lama dulu. Tawaran masih dibuka, katanya Kak Ma’wa. Bersungguh benar dia menjemput.

“Kalau orang dah ajak, pergilah.. Kalau kamu balik pun bukannya rajin menolong. Lagi menyusahkan nak kena buat lauk asing !” Terdengar tawa kecil dari hujung sana.

Aduh.. kenapa sakit sangat dada aku ni mak!

ANGAN-ANGAN, SEJAUH MANAKAH?

          Pernah seorang konsultan berkongsi perihal impian dan cita-cita. Topik hambar yang selalu dilepas pandang. Impian dan cita-cita adalah dua 'elemen'yang saling berkait. Bezanya hanyalah usaha, Kenapa?

Kerana impian tanpa cita-cita adalah angan-angan.

          Cita-citalah yang mennggerakkan diri kita untuk berusaha bagi merealisasikan impian, hakikatnya. Analogi mudah; kita mahu kaya. Kita mahu kereta mewah. Kita mahu banglo tiga tingkat lengkap dengan nature view atau swimming pool. Ini dikategorikan dalam IMPIAN. Yang merealisasikannya adalah CITA-CITA.

MELAYU, ARAK DAN BABI

Tadi, roommates hangat sembang pasal babi dan arak. seperti biasa, aku lebih selesa mendengar.

rata-rata bersetuju dengan 'aku rela memilih arak berbanding makan babi'. sebabnya, babi tu kotor. nanti makan perut berulat. bla bla bla. yada yada yada. pendapat mereka betul. sejarahnya babi, Allah ciptakan dalam kisah bahtera Nabi Nuh untuk bersihkan bahan kumuhan (baca : najis) yang dibuang oleh 'penghuni-penghuni' bahtera.

aku tergelak sendiri. dalam hati. ku cuba sampaikan pendapatku pula. seperti biasa, pendapatku diperlekeh. adat cara pemikiran yang berbeza. majoriti takkan cuba mendengar pendapat minoriti.

kalaulah mereka sedar, perihal babi dosanya cuma setakat itu. perihal arak, dosa dapat, laknat pun dapat.

aku tidak mengatakan lebih baik makan babi daripada minum arak. aku tidak menafikan kedua-duanya adalah isu berat, kenapa perlu memilih yang haram antara yang haram?

apa yang aku cuba sampaikan adalah kedudukan arak itu sendiri dalam Islam. peringatan semula buat kita yang selalu lupa.

"Dari Anas bin Malik katanya : Bahawasanya Baginda Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam melaknat sepuluh golongan yang berkaitan dengan arak iaitu : Yang memerahnya, yang minta diperahkannya, yang meminumnya, yang membawanya dan minta dibawa kepadanya, yang menuangkannya, yang menjualnya, yang makan harganya, yang membelinya dan yang minta dibelikan".(Riwayat Al-Imam At-Termidzi)

melayu dan babi, 
anti-nya setara langit dan kerak bumi.

wallahualam.

Funny Joke?

Rasa macam nak cerita pasal sorang kawan ni. Sangat respect dengan dia.

Kami kenal hujung tahun lepas via site antarabangsa. Jika dikira, dia pengikut ajaran yang baik. Jarang minum arak (bila ada event je) , tak main perempuan, tak berzina, pergi gereja setiap minggu. Well, its quite awesome untuk orang barat yang tak mengikut budaya barat untuk hidup, bagi saya.

Saya banyak belajar hal perbezaan agama dengannya. Alhamdulillah.

Awalnya, dia susah nak terima tentang Islam sebab katanya its a strict religion. Banyak sangat rule yang kadang-kadang macam mengarut (bagi mereka). Juga sebab faktor media.

Sampailah akhirnya dia amazed bila dapat tahu rupanya agama-agama monotiesme (Islam Kristian yahudi) ni asalnya daripada satu. Cucu cicit Nabi Ibrahim. Dan sejak itu, bila mana dia bentangkan cerita-cerita kenabian dari Bible dan Torah, dia suka dengar kisah dari Quran juga. Sebab kisahnya sama. Cuma nama yang bertukar.

Satu hari, dia bertanya dalam gurau. Kononnya main teka-teki. "Cuba teka kenapa Bible lagi senang nak dapat daripada Quran? Kamu boleh dapatkan Bible merata-rata secara free, tapi tidak Quran"

Jawabnya; " sebab orang Islam pandang Qur'an ni kitab yang suci. Bukan macam kami. Bible hanyalah buku, yang ditulis balik oleh apostles. Quran ada satu. Tapi kami ada banyak versi. Dan setiap versinya ada yang bercanggah. Saya sendiri tak mengamalkannya sepenuhnya. Ikut mana yang dikira logik."

Saya tergamam. Banyak lagi perbualan yang dia reveal cara pemikiran penganut Kristian sebenarnya. Yang masih jadi keraguannya sebab dia sukar nak terima Rasulullah SAW adalah Nabi terakhir dan Allah itu Tuhan yang Satu.

Walau pernah dia betulkan kesilapan English saya bahawa Allah bukan nama. Dia adalah Tuhan. Walau dia sendiri confuse dengan konsep trinity

Dan mungkin juga sebab keluarganya. Seems namanya sama dengan mendiang datuknya yang berjaya kristiankan 2000 orang, buatkan dia lagi bimbang akan penerimaan mak ayahnya.

Amazed. Sebenarnya mak cik (emaknya) sendiri pun banyak tahu tentang kisah-kisah agama monoteisme dan dia bersetuju dengan kebanyakan cerita. (Kawan saya banyak rujuk emaknya .) Cuma mungkin ada yang jadi kekeliruan mereka anak-beranak. Wallahualam.

Apa yang saya nak sampaikan; percanggahan pendapat tu biasa. Lagi-lagi melibatkan isu - isu sensitif. Tapi kalau kedua-dua pihak berlapang dada menerima, kebencian takkan ada. Saling memahami lagi terpupuk. InsyaAllah..

Screenshots :

MASIH BUTAKAH KITA?

Rupanya kisah sang gimnas tu pun sampai ke media sesat anti-Muslim. Hmm. 

Marah? Rasa terhina tak? 
Apa kita masih lagi buta dengan isu Islamophobia (baca : takut dengan Islam) ? 
kuasa media dah satu hal. persepsi lagi satu hal; kesan daripada pengaruh media juga.

nak ubah persepsi satu je cara. Tunjuk.

'tunjuk apa?'

tunjuk kat depa sebenarnya macam mana tu ajaran Islam, amalkan selagi mampu setiap ajaran berpandukan sunnah Rasulullah SAW. insyaAllah.

kalau kita duk sama naik pung pang pung pang lawan hujah depa, cayalah, kemungkinan untuk depa terima tu negatif infiniti . sebab, macam kita la. kalau dah bengang dengan orang mana nak dengar hujah orang lain. kita ja yang betul.

'salah kakak ni jugak timbul kontroversi. dah la orang luaq duk cop malaysia ni negara muslim. padahaiiii cara pemerintahan malaysia ni....'

satu jari tunjuk kat orang, empat lagi balik kat kita sedara. duk claim pasal politik, hal-hal wajib hat duk diulang dari perut ibu mengandung lagi tu takda la pulak nak ikut.

Hal solat dan aurat kita dah cukup sempurna ke? tak kesah la laki ke pompuan. kita serupa. tepuk dada tanya hati.

'takpa, Allah dah janji Islam akan menang jugak nanti.'

ada kamus dewan tak nak hempuk bagi shock kat neuron biar berkembang cepat sikit?

PS : ini status kecewa. ._.

sumber: Islam Exposed (The truth about radical Islam)

KUN!

credit photo

         Anis mimpi lagi. mimpikan arwah Filzah yang kelihatan marah padanya. entah kenapa. padahal si dia muncul dalam senyum. membawa Anis kembali mengingati momen-momen mereka sepanjang persekolahan dulu, dari Tingkatan Satu hinggalah Tingkatan Lima. ya, Filzah itu rakan sepasukan Anis yang paling baik yang dia pernah ada.

          Anis tersedar. Jam menunjukkan pukul 6:49 petang. bila-bila sahaja waktuu Maghrib akan masuk. 'Allah, Asar tak solat lagi ni!' Lantas Anis bergegas ke bilik air, mengambil wudhu lalu membentangkan sejadah menghadap kiblat. 

OF THE BRAIN AND THE HEART

       Last night, I was very tired. almost dozed off while I was working. yet later when I arrived home, the eyes wouldn't want to close. it was already 2am that time.

      One hour passed. Even the rooster started waking up the people for tahajjud. But the heart still persuading the brain to 'switch off' the eyes as the body was already super tired. the bitter truth is, just like who I am, that little brain is actually freaking stubborn one. =.= but thanks to Allah, I managed to sleep at last.

5:30am.
     The ears captured the recital from the nearest mosque. giving a signal; 'Get ready for subuh (Fajr prayer) ! Wake up people, wake up! '

      And this freaking stubborn little brain again then spoke up. 'hey man, it's still early. you should sleep for another minutes. your body still need to recharge dowhh... think! you have to go work today. Won't you afraid you will faint while working? sleeping is good to overcome this thing, man.. doctor said you have to get enough rest. you still under his treatment. let's obey him. Just go sleep.. sleep.. sleep..'

      So the hero (heart) came.
'you know what, it's Allah who woke you up.'

      Dang! 

      The brain was cracked for a while. shutting down, ashamed to counter the heart back. the eyes then opened telling the new day has started.

      And this tiny little heart whispered; 'it's okay to be tired. it's just a while. Nuhaa, Allah is your stronghold, and with Him as your guide, you need never be afraid. Cast all your care on Him... and believe.'

PS : Big fat thanks to Allah, still giving us chance to stay alive. ^^ 

may Allah bless us all.

The bitter truth

Baru-baru ini saya telah meninggalkan komen pada satu page di facebook; bukanlah menghina. cuma menyindir statement yang telah mereka buat dan kongsi hanya semata ingin menunjukkan bahawa Islam itu adalah agama keganasan. 

"pfft. it's not a weird thing to see all those post you shared. seems you're anti-Muslims. The likers also. But somehow, even zero plus zero can never get one, how come you can think all the lies you fed them will turn out into a truth? kahkah. 

ban me. or block me. that really shows me, you're wrong." 

Jaded

sometimes, being independent too much makes mom and dad feel they are not needed. - wani

Seringkali kesusahan mengajar aku untuk lebih kuat, lebih tabah. Namun banyak kali juga sedar tidak sedar, ada yang terasa. ada yang terkilan. 

salah aku juga. pulang hanya sekali setiap semester. Dan jika pulang pun aku bukanlah selalu lekat di rumah. Lantaran kerja yang sudah diamanahkan, aku leka. Aku lupa, tugasnya seorang anak itu berbakti kepada ibu bapa, selepas Allah yang tercinta. 

Adamantium 2

memori itu menerpa lagi.

apa yang terasa,sepenuhnya hanya Allah yang tahu. Hanya Allah yang faham beratnya perasaan nak terima kebenaran. 

Wani,tak difikir apa perasaan keluarganya ? Mereka menanggung lagi teruk dari kamu. Allah..

Sebelum arwah pergi, Allah telah pun menguji aku dengan kehilangan seorang sahabat yang baik. Fatin Farah Faraddia. Pelajar Diploma Sains Sukan di UiTM Shah Alam.Terima kasih Ida atas khabaran berita. Terkejut, namun aku langsung tidak menitiskan air mata. Entah kenapa, aku sedih tapi lagakku seperti tiada apa-apa yang berlaku. Seperti, kematian seorang rakan itu hanyalah perkara biasa. Tidak perlu begitu sedih sehingga menangis teresak-esak.